I asked AI to analyze which single cabinet color choice does the most damage to a kitchen’s perceived age — and the answer was consistent across every style of home it reviewed.

The culprit is honey oak stain. Not dark walnut, not painted white, not even the avocado green that everyone loves to mock. Honey oak — that warm, orange-toned wood finish that dominated American kitchens from roughly 1985 to 2005 — signals “dated” faster than almost any other finish in residential design.
AI flagged it because the color sits in a specific tonal range that has no modern equivalent. Dark wood reads as intentional. Light wood reads as Scandinavian. Honey oak reads as a kitchen that hasn’t been touched since the Clinton administration.
The fix doesn’t require a full renovation. AI suggested that painting over existing honey oak cabinets — using a soft white, warm greige, or deep navy — can shift a kitchen’s perceived age by 15 to 20 years without touching the layout or hardware budget. A gallon of quality cabinet paint runs $50 to $80. Professional cabinet painting typically lands between $1,200 and $3,500 depending on kitchen size.

Hardware matters too. AI noted that brushed gold or matte black pulls replace the brass that usually accompanies honey oak, and that swap alone costs under $200 for most kitchens.
Walk into your kitchen and look at the cabinets with fresh eyes. If they’re pulling orange, that’s where to start.
